There are a lot of things which make me sad . First of all let me tell all of you what actually makes you or me sad ? Those things which makes you feel uncomfortable and unhappy or the things which makes you feel bad whenever you think of that particular thing . Also sadness no only comes for the people we love , it also comes up with the people we use to see. The five things which makes me sad are as follow-
1-WHEN A WOMEN IS ASSAULTED
It's being almost 74 years of our independence but still today also women are not safe . Yes of course there have been various rules , regulations and helplines made to provide security to the women but somehow even today also women are being raped , sexually abused and harassed .There are a lot of solutions to these problems but it will take so long for our judicial system to implement it . One of the most effective and easiest solution to this problem is to educate your brothers , sons and fathers to respect women . Teach them how to behave and respect a girl whether she is your family member or a stranger . JUST LEARN TO RESPECT WOMEN. It is so shameful for us if we don't respect a girl. These days cases of rapes and harassing are increasing and it can only be decreased by teaching the males that how to behave and give respect to every women in this world . Whether that women is daughter, maid, mother, teacher, and sister . It is my humble request to all my readers whether you are a boy or a girl just respect women whether you
are connected with her or not . START FROM YOUR FAMILY, teach your family males to pay respect to every women.
2-WHENEVER I SEE PEOPLE NOT TAKING CARE OF THEIR OLD AGE PARENTS
It is so painful and awful for me when I see old age people treated badly and miserably by their children . From our childhood till our death our parents always stand with us. Whenever we are happy or sad , feeling enjoyable or feeling low, our parents always use to be with us irrespective of any situations . But when they reach at the age of 60 or 70 people think that they have become burden on them . The parents who always take care of their children and spend boundless money on endless wants and studies of their children use to get burden for them at old age . Their children miserably throw out them with their homes. (The home which is made by their parents only with lots of love and precious hard-working of their parents) . I hope one day I will help and donate for old age homes.
3-WHEN I SEE PEOPLE SURVIVING ON THE FOOTPATH AND ROADS
This is one of those things which makes me sad since my childhood . I always worry about these
people and whenever I see them i feel very pity for them. I used to wonder about these people by
seeing there livelihood how one can survive without a room or a house . These people used to deal with a lot of problems as well as the climatic conditions. In summers , the temperature raises about 40 degrees Celsius and in such a hot and sweaty summers they use to live on footpaths. Even footpaths also used to get hot , it is too difficult for people like us to sit on that and they are having homes on it ! In rainy season the footpaths get wet and full of water. Imagine! you are having wet floors and you have to sleep , eat , cook and study on it . For me it's unimaginable. In winters these days the temperature is dropping day by day and its ends up to 1 or 2 degree Celsius .In fog and chilly winds they use to live on footpaths and roads. Not only the climatic conditions there are many other problems to which they have to face everyday. For example when weather gets polluted we all used to be in our homes shutting our used to be in our homes shutting our windows and doors just to get rid of pollution , have you ever think about them?? That how these people use to survive! Hence by looking at these people I use to get very sad. I hope one day I will help these people and donate some basic things which will make their livelihood better.
4- PROBLEMS IN DECISION MAKING
I know this might be strange for you all but yes I am very poor at decision making I know that this is the very basic for anyone as every body makes decision in there lives so did I but for me it's very difficult thing. I realized it every time whenever I used to decide anything .I remember after my 10th boards exams it was very difficult for me to select the subjects. Of course, it is difficult for everybody but for me its 4 times harder . Even after my 12th class final exams I wasn't sure about what to do in the future and to select which course , this not only ends here it became a very big problem for me everywhere.... from doing shopping to buying food. I know it may be funny for you guys but yes I accept this that it is very difficult for me to make decisions and most of the times it gets very irritating for me.
5-WHENEVER I THINK ABOUT OUR INDIAN FARMERS
It's not like by watching farmers these days on strikes and movements I am writing this article. I am writing this because whenever I think about farmers I use to get sad because a farmer is one who directly or indirectly feeds us with food. He basically plays the role of a god who gives us food (annadevta). Imagining a life without the farmers is miserable , even we can't think of it . Every farmer deserves rights and respect. Many people don't even know about their importance .These days we can watch their strikes and movements which they are performing on borders . Just for a while imagine our god of food being on strikes and sitting on roads in these chilly winter days. Think about them , about their families , their houses. We doesn't respect our farmers . In foreign countries , farmers are given respect and even they have high salaries . If we can't pay them high , we can pay them respect and thus I think that this is the thing that we all should give them because they deserve it.