By- Tanya srivastava
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Porn Addiction

Reality Check

{ Disclaimer:- It's my opinion, I am not an expert and all the information mentioned in this article is taken from the internet. If you are really suffering from this kind of stuff, go seek help, take help from a professional, I am just putting light on it. Think logically}


What porn addiction is?

Simply addicted to watching porn to the highest extent that it has taken control of you.

Once in our teenage life, we have watched porn or at least heard about it. In our teenage years where we want to know about sex, so we get to know about it by friends or porn ( talking about the Indian scenario), that is where things get started. 

Most of you still watch porn and think that you will never have that extent of addiction but that is where things start to get messy.

Porn is something parents should tell their children about, not in a restrictive way but polite way but let's not discuss that topic it's a whole other topic. 

Now the question is why do we watch porn?

We are human beings and everyone has sexual desires and to fulfill those we watch porn or it's simply to escape from reality ( that hard homework you are procrastinating to do or some suffering ). We don’t wanna talk about it because of "shame” because we think that shame is bigger than addiction. So there could be many factors.


Let's take a look at the statistics:-

IF YOU SEE THE REAL STATISTIC OF PEOPLE WATCHING PORN ON A DAILY BASIS IT'S WHAT YOU NEVER EXPECTED.

Any guesses?

PUTTING THE SCREENSHOT HERE 

And it's crazy.


So how do you get addicted to porn, without realizing it?

It's simple, let's take an example of our mobile phone, consciously or unconsciously we get back to the phone every 2 minutes, we can not live without it. 

Have you ever thought that you will be on your phone 24/7? No, right. What happens with any other addiction including porn is, we don’t want to be addicted but we become addict.

The production that goes under one porn video is huge, their psychiatrist sitting behind and analyzing what is the best way so that people get back to us.

The today porn industry is worth 12 billion dollars.


Why do you need to stop?

-Effects relationships

-it messes up with your brain 

-Anxiety, depression

-Trauma

-participating in degrading, abusive, violent, or criminal sexual activity

-producing, distributing, or selling porn

-engaging in physically unsafe and harmful sex

And many more…..

Studies have shown that 95% porn is harsh and some of them are actual rape and human trafficking . Girls get into a contract that they can’t get out of and it leads to abuse….

I have seen many interviews of porn stars who are out of that industry now and things they have faced.

Salil Jamdar is one of the YouTuber to raise the voice towards porn addiction if you haven’t seen his channel, check it out. He has a podcast with menstrua talking about porn addiction, just amazing to check it out…

Plus there are so many ted talks on this topic and after searching about porn it's just so sad and it's so destructive for our youth because the messages porn is giving us are wrong in so many ways you can’t even think of. We don’t do critical thinking that much and that is the worse part and leads us to think, "okay that's what happens in real life when we do sex".

Now the question is how we can stop it?

Because it's hard and I can understand it's simple than other addictions but comes with a lot of shame and quietness. So I WOULD SUGGEST YOU SEE A THERAPIST, A PROFESSIONAL INSTEAD OF GOING TO YOUTUBE BECAUSE ITS A SERIOUS PROBLEM ( as serious as cancer).

And others who are not addicted but watch for fun a few times, just stop!!!!!!!!

It's not the most healthy way to know about sex. Stop making excuses, for whatever reason you have started watching it, now you have a reason to stop. you are literally wasting your time and the porn industry is earning from that and it's just kept growing and I could say it's one of the biggest threats to our youth.

“WHAT YOU CONSUME ON THE INTERNET, IS YOUR FUTURE"

LEARN TO SAY NO TO PORN 

#saynotoporn


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